Friday, November 18, 2011

My DD Memories...

Long before our lives were ruled by the cablewala, set top boxes, DTH, HD and blah blah blah, Doordarshan was the only TV channel, and for people of my generation a huge part of our lives. We could not wait for the evening to come when a huge ball of orange slowly truned into the Doordarshan logo, I clearly remember as kids my sister and I would eagerly look forward to our summer vacations to our nani's home in Saharanpur. Ofcourse there was the joy of going to nana, nani ke ghar, this was doubled by the fact that we could watch TV there. You see at the time all the places my father was posted (Jalgaon, Dhule), had no TV transmission. TV only came to Dhule in 1984. Until we had to contend with the B/W TV of my grandparents! We would religiously watch krishi darshan, the hindi samachar, I love lucy and only go to bed after bidding the anchor shubhratri!

Our world changed with the TV coming to Dhule, 1984, around the time the first hindi serial (that is what we called soaps then!) "Hum Log" came on air. Hosted by the veteran actor Ashok Kumar, "Hum Log", with its middle class ethos, became a part of our daily lives. It was a story about a middle class family, in Delhi, trying to make ends meet. It had the eldest and the most pampered child (laloo), the responsible elder daughter (badki), the ambitious majhli, the intelligent chutki, and light-eyed cutie-pie nanhe played by Abhinav Chaturvedi, the grandparents, drunkard father with his long suffering wife! Till today Vinod Nagpal is known as Basesar Ram and Sushma Seth as dadi! Coming to think of it almost of the actors of Hum Log are till today known by their screen names. A testament to the love and affection showered on them by the whole country.

Of course there was no looking back after Hum Log. Manohar Shyam Joshi, who wrote Hum Log, created magic again with Buniyaad; directed by Ramesh “sholay” Sippy. Another mega-serial; this time about a family dealing with the repercussion of the partition. Many serials have been made with the parition theme, but unfortunately none managed to create the magic of Buniyaad. How can we ever forget Master Haveliram (Alok Nath), the khadi-clad-idealistic eldest son of a wealthy businessman who is interested in the freedom struggle? And then there is the chirpy Lajjoji (Anita Kanwar), her friend and masterji's sister veerawali (Kiran Juneja). The serial deals with Haveliram's struggle to hold on to his ideologies and his duty towards his family. After the partition the family moves to Delhi and new characters are added, Masterji & Lajjoji's sons played by Dalip Tahil, Mazhar Khan and Kanwaljeet. Mazhar Khan will always be remembered for his character to a happy-go-luckly fellow, who is always eager to make a quick buck! While Alok Nath went on to become the lovable father of hindi serials and Rajshree films, unfortunately Anita Kanwar disappeared into oblivion, and Kiran Juneja, famously went on to marry the producer of the serial, the much older Ramesh "sholey" Sippy.

While talking about partition, the one name the immediately comes to mind is the hard-hitting Tamas, written by Padma Bhushan Bhisham Sahani (the younger brother of veteran actor Balraj Sahani). A very serious look at the partition, this serial attracted the who's who of the acting fraternity. Bhisham Sahani himself acted in the serial along with Dina Pathak, Om Puri, Amrish Puri, Surekha Sekri, Uttara Baokar, Deepa Sahi. This epic serial was directed by Govind Nihalani.

At the time Doordarshan serials were weekly, running into 13, 26 or 52 episodes, this trend was changed by the mega serials Ramayan & Mahabharat. Once they were on air Sundays were never the same again. Ramayan was produced by Sagar Arts and starred Arun Govil and Deepika Chiklia as Ram & Seeta and the indomitable Daara Singh as Hanuman (can't think of anyone else as Hanuman, can we now?!). Cities wore a deserted look on Sunday mornings when Ramayan was aired, as if a curfew has been imposed, and there dare not be a power-cut for the half hour! Recently Imagine TV also produced Ramayan, but could not capture the audience's attention as the earlier one. An original is an original, after all!

The mega-serial was soon followed by another epic, of truly gigantic proportions...Mahabharat, produced by B R Films. Producing this serial must have truly been a herculean task, for Mahabharat has no. of stories woven into one. Very soon Mahabharat commanded the same attention as Ramayan and soon on every Sunday, Suresh Wadekar echoed from every television. Harish Bhimani was the voice of "time", who acted as the narrator of the tale. People waited with bated breaths, wondering who will play the "pandavas", initially disappointed but soon warmed upto them. Nitish Bahardwaj played "Krishna" and till today finds himself bound by the image.

This was the time of weekly episodes, not daily soaps and "maha episodes". Everyone waited eagerly for their favourite ones. Much before ACP Pradyumna and his "daya darwaza tod do" CID gang came to investigate crime, Karamchand jasoos had already made his mark. Along with his scatter-brained secretary Kitty, he solved many-a-complex murders. Pankaj Kapur & Sushmita Kitty Mukherjee made an unlikely crime-fighting team, which endeared themselves to the audiences.

DD also supported a whole genre of comedy. Good clean family entertainment unlike the comedy shows of today, which rely heavily on slapstick and double meaning dialogues. The top-of-the mind recall goes to Yeh Jo Hai Zindagi. Who can rival this iconic serial? The serial written by comedy writer Sharad Joshi starred Shafi Inamdar and Swaroop Sampat as the husband wife duo Ranjit and Renu Verma. The serial also starred Rajesh Bedi as Renu’s unmarried unemployed brother, while Satish Shah played a different part in each serial…and enthralled everyone with his comic timing!

While talking about the comedy genre, it would be sacrilegious not to talk about Nukkad…a serial about a street corner; which could have been anywhere in an Indian metro. The daily trials and tribulations of the residents of this street corner managed to make a place in every DD watching Indian’s heart. The serial co-directed by Kundan Shan and Saeed Mirza, starred Dilip Dhawan (the heart of gold “Guru”), Rama Vij (lovable teacherji), Avtar Gill and Pavan Malhotra amongst many other memorable characters.

And then there was “Wagle Ki Duniya” ; a satirical take on the struggle of the common man. Starring Anjan Srivastave and Bharati Achrekar, this serial soon became a mass favourite.

I remember serials on DD such as Ek Kahani, Darpan, Kathasagar; which featured adaptions of stories by award winning writers of Hindi and other regional languages. In today’s world of daily soaps and saas-bahu dramas, which cannot distinguish themselves from each other; one feels the need of powerful writing. There is no dearth of writers only experimental production houses. Maybe if they look beyond the “K” fascination! I wonder who would take the time and the effort that Govind Nihalani took to televise Jawahar Lal Nehru’s Discovery of India?

Talking about diversity in serials, I can’t help but remember Gul, Gulshan, Gulfam; which portrayed the life of a Kashmiri family making a living with their 3 house boats. The patriarch of the family was played by the very talented Parikshit Sahani and Radha Seth as his wife. The serial shot in Srinagar also starred Pankaj Berry, Neena Gupta and Kunal Khemu.

Looking back there are so many wonderful memories of DD; Many serials that became a part of our lives, conversations, heated debates and now our memories. Serials that gave us the badshah of Bollywood; Shah Rukh Khan (fauji, doosra Kewal). The quiz shows that everyone watched with rapt attention, the half an hour of cartoons on Sunday; that any day beat the 24 hr cartoon channels. Not to forget the Sunday movie, the chitrahaar…who needed MTV and channel V?! This was the time when DD ruled and the TV had not turned into the idiot box. The television actors of the time were not one-soap wonders, but were a talented group of actors who made their presence felt by strong characters. Today we may never see an actor again, nor remember their real names, but we will always remember Sudhir Pandey, Neena Gupta, Pavan Malhotra, Shafi Inamdar amongst many many other talented actors. DD might have lost its sheen in the glossy world of HD TV and 24 hr channel, but in my mind DD is a special memory which always puts a smile on my face. I might have missed so many serials which u might remember, do share ur special memories!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

So sweet...

There is nothing more welcoming than coming back home to the aroma of baking!



Isn't it amazing how a simple flour, eggs & sugar batter can turn into something so divine...



A perfect picture...!



More from the kitchen later...!!

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Happy Sunday

Bored of the usual Sunday routine of window shopping followed by movie at Phoenix Mills (altho' I love the place and have many happy memories of it, what say Meghs?!, off-late I've become bored of it!)today, Shashank & I, thought of doing the touristy thing of visiting Gateway of India. We had initially planned to go there early morning following by breakfast at one of the quaint little cafes of Colaba. Now, people who know me well...know very well that I am not a morning person! Never-the-less, the only change was that the planned breakfast became lunch!



The Gateway thronging with tourists!



I half wished I had made the effort to get up early to avoid the crowd and the sun!



The beautiful lattice work. It's a pity, the condition they are in.



The Taj, beautifully restored to its former glory



Time for lunch, and we walk to this quaint little place called Woodside Inn, opposite Regal. It's a must visit for anyone coming to Mumbai. It a smallish place with a nice bar. I loved all the framed photograps of Colaba buildings. Very nice touch.



Let the good times begin!



Onion rings & mushrooms in beer batter. It does not get better than this!



Give me a crunchy fresh salad and pasta in a simple red sauce, and my world is perfect!



Blueberry cheese cake. Perfect end to a beautiful afternoon. Day well spent, indeed! I had grand ideas of walking up to Flora Fountain and VT thereafter, to click some pictures. But can u blame me for wanting to go home and catch a nap, after eating so much. But don't worry, will bring u more from my Colaba sojourns. Cheers!

Monday, January 24, 2011

Pillars of strength...

How many of us can get through life alone? Can we make it alone? Survive, let alone succeed? Distressing just thinking about it, isn't it? As humans, we need company, support, a helping hand from time to time, a kind word, a gentle nudge of persuasion, reassurance, a source of inspiration and strength. And we find these sources both within us and outside. Over a period of time, we come to recognise this strength and learn to harness it. More often than not these sources are closer than we think...

Family: a family of birth or of pro-creation, it remains a permanent fixture in our lives. Of course no one and nothing is perfect, and the same goes with families! Imperfection is a truth of life and probably that's what makes it unique. Every one's family is unique with its own imperfections, but it is something we go back to everyday. Turn to in times of distress and happiness. It is very reassuring to know, we have people who would reprimand, correct and support when needed. No one deserves to be loved unconditionally except a small kid unable to take care of him/herself, hence we must learn to value our families and cherish & nurture the relationships within it. Family gives us wings and a platform to take-off from, it deserves to be treated with love, care and oodles of respect.

The better half, the significant other, the person u go to bed with, the first person u want to see when u wake up, the person u want to grow old with...ur partner. This person grows the closest to u; safe to say even more than ur parents, sibling & closest friend. The person u set up home with, u want to come home to. But alas, how many times do we take them for granted, in our pursuit of individual goals. Our spouses make us better people, we grow-up with them, should we not celebrate our love for them everyday? Take care of this reservoir of strength.

Friends are the family we choose for ourselves. We might have hundreds of friends in our FB friend list, but there are only a handful of them who are allowed into the inner world of our fears and insecurities, who become the custodians of our deepest / darkest secrets, the friends who partake in our happiness, who support us and, when need be, show us the mirror! Friends are taken for granted, forgotten but we can never do without them, after all who would share our most outrageous dreams!

Education never goes waste. Unfortunately we have an education system, where all we are concerned about, is the exams. All energies are focused on clearing the examination, that we don't even pause and look at education in practical terms, how will it help me in life? Well since we are not whiners and cribbers, lets endeavour to make the most of what we've got! Education of any kind, always helps. Sometimes in obscure ways. So lets have a "holistic" approach towards education, where everything matters...not just selective studying for the exams. There is no age to learn. There is no age to start. Lets keep the grey cells in top shape.

Self belief / self confidence: if there are people in ur life who will support u and push u to do ur best, then there will be equal no. of people who will pull u down! So decide who matter and whom u will listen to. No one has the power to call u a winner or a loser, for no one knows u better than u! All of us are responsible for the choices we make, so make sure the choice u have made is ur own. Our mind is a wonderful apparatus, it can take us to euphoric happiness and the next moment plummet to deep, dark depths of depression. And in times like these self belief & confidence comes handy, they get us thru' many a difficult situations. If we are only defined by people's perception of us, we are denying ourselves the chance to discover ourselves. If we believe in our ability we can achieve whatever we set our mind to. Unless we push ourselves, we won't know our true strength. No one achieved anything sitting comfortable in the comfort zone & whining about the unfairness of life! Get out, reignite the fire, discover ur destiny! Have faith in urself.

Attitude is everything. Period! No one likes a cribber, a whiner! Look around and we notice that we intentionally or unintentionally distance ourselves from people who are always cribbing or complaining. Everyone has a share of "unfair circumstances", but that does not give one the reason to vent it all on the world! Everyone likes a person with a "can do" attitude. We win some and we lose some. But why to lose without even trying? why drop an idea without even giving it a fair shot? Remember it is attitude and not aptitude that determines the altitude in life! Have a positive attitude and negate the negativity. Banish all negativity from life. If u can smile in the face of crisis, u can face anything (well, almost, I think!!)

However much people might like to believe that they are self-made and need no one, the truth is they could not be further from the truth. We cannot be what we are or what we become, without the influences in our life. It can be the formative influences by our family and then later, by friends & teachers, followed by our own instincts and our lessons. And this cycle never stops. But then neither does life.

Always remember, if u want to draw strength, u must also learn to provide it.

Friday, January 21, 2011

Resolutions for life...

Well into the New Year this is a good time to reflect over the new year resolutions. Some doable, some outrageous! But all made with good intentions! After all new beginnings give a adrenaline rush like nothing else. Moreover they give us the hope of being happier, slimmer & richer! With so much of cheer and happiness going around...it is easy to overlook the fact that most new year resolutions are recycled...more like they are carried forward from the previous year. Or is it? I believe there are certain resolutions that need to be made & kept year after year as they do not have a "best before date". Here are some of mine (in random order!)...for the current year and years to come...

Take care of you: a common resolve at the beginning of the year, priority no.1 that steadily loses its ranking, as the months change on the calender! Health should be a priority, no matter ur age or profession. So get moving people! Don't wait for ur birthday, anniversary, monday or the 1st of the month. Start now. exercise. Walk, cycle, run or embrace yoga. Whatever ur calling. Lets start now. Remember u r all u've got, don't give up on urself!

Eat healthy: surprising coming from me, because according to my mom I have an extremely unhealthy eating habits. Much as I hate to admit it, like the boss mom is always right (well almost always) and it does not hurt to listen to ur mom every once in a while. So instead of a brownie, its going to be an apple, banana instead of potato chips and what do we replace aerated drinks with? While I figure that one out, let me move on to the next one...

Be positive: now, this i am talking from experience, so trust me on this one...if we drown ourselves in negative thoughts, we see negativity all around...and this law works the same with positivity! So better to be positive, good for u and people around u. Negative forces suck all the energy from u, while positivity fills u with vitality to take on the world. Easy choice, won't u say? Ok, alrite so not so easy to implement, but worth a try; one small step at a time! Spread cheer. Smile! Remember the world is not out to get u. It just does not have the time!

Belief: it is very easy to fall prey to someone else's perception of u, it happens many times with all of us. But the truth is no one knows u better than u! So it's ok to listen to people sometimes, but not all the time. As an intelligent creature use ur head. Belief in self helps us accomplish difficult tasks. If u don't push urself, u won't know what u r capable of doing!

Start something new: want to write a book? learn to cook? climb a mountain? travel? paint? learn a sport? a new language perhaps? whatever it is...the time is right now! Good luck. Tell me how it goes. And I will keep u posted on things at my end. Promise!

Be kind, be humble, be honest: no one like a dishonest person, especially I. So it is my endeavour to be truthful to the extent of my conscience. Be kind, be nice to people, for u never know they might be fighting a harder battle, everyone has their crosses to bear. No point increasing their burden.

Enjoy ur work: if a job is worth doing...it's worth doing well. So u were not singled out to have a bad boss or a stupid client...they were distributed evenly. So relax or get out. I got out of the corporate grind and am happy.

Make friends and most importantly be a good friend. A reliable friend. A true friend. Laughter is better shared.

Live the best life u can. Enjoy the ride. No one is getting out of it alive, so while at it make the most of it!

And lastly don't crib about the standard of living, the alternative sucks.

Have a great year and a fantastic life ahead :)

All the best!

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Easy way out...

It is easier to...


give up than to soldier on
sleep in than to get up and face the world
love than to trust
spend than to save
stop than to start
lie than to be hit by the truth
fall prey to other's perception of self than self-belief
fall in line than to stand out
be in the comfort zone than on the edge
look the other way than to face facts
stare at the dark cloud than to look for the silver lining
wonder if there light at the end of the tunnel than to go looking for it
lament one's badluck for misfortunes than to get up and get on
close ur eyes than to stare fear in the face


but can we get thru' by always taking the easy way out?!


at times, the only thing to do is to get up, dust off, walk on...onward and forward always!


Good luck!